Would you let Edward (or any vampire) change you?

I've been rewatching all the Twilight movies and I've really started to think about if I would let Edward, or any vampire, change me. I mean I'm the same age as Bella in Eclipse and Breaking Dawn (18) and I honestly don't think I would. Like if my boyfriend was a vampire and asked to change me I think I would say no. I mean having to abandon my family and watch my friends die all to possibly get a divorce at some point during our eternal life is just not worth it to me. Plus I'm actually a little hesitant to live forever but that's an issue for a different time. I know me and Bella have a different family dynamic's but I would never ever abandon my family. Not hate to Bella, (I mean this is a fictional scenario to begin with) but you are giving up too much in my opinion.