Keen to know SB/SD thoughts on….

Moving from the website you initially start chatting on, to WhatsApp / telegram / something else.

I’ve had a bit of success in the past on a particular website but I find it really clunky to use and it doesn’t have an app - so I can’t get notifications directly to me when someone replies.

I prefer to use WhatsApp or telegram so if I get chatting to a potential SD and the conversation is going well, I tend to ask if they would be happy to move to telegram or WhatsApp if they’re comfortable with that (but obviously say it’s fine if they would prefer to stay on the site).

I’ve since moved off the site with a couple of potentials and it seemed to be going well. But they seem to have now lost interest. Should I have stayed on the site? Or does it not matter?

Help an over thinker out!