Are there any SBs/SDs here that are in interracial sugar relationships? Help!

I’m a black, British female who has gotten back into the sugar bowl over the past 1.5 months. I’ve been on dates with a few POT SDs (nothing concrete as of yet). All of them have been Caucasian men. I have not dated a black man either in the bowl or in the vanilla world.

I’ve noticed some VERY intense stares, and whispers, particularly from Caucasian women when I’ve gone on these dates. When I see same ethnicity, age gap couples in London the attention they receive is not nearly as much.

How do you stop this sort of negative attention from bothering you?

I genuinely enjoy the company of older men, so it’s not enough to stop me from dating them but occasionally, the negative attention can be pretty bothersome!