My experience sugar dating was so much better than vanilla dating

I tried out sugar dating just for the fun of it earlier this year and I was in a monogamous arrangement with the most amazing guy ever. He was a multimillionaire, handsome, gentle, and kind hearted.

We had a 15 years age gap but it was 2000% amazing and smooth-sailing:

  • we texted for a week
  • he asked me out and made reservations at a delicious restaurant.
  • He treated me so respectfully like a classic gentleman. The chivalry was real.
  • we immediately deleted the app
  • literally smooth sailing from there. No mind games, no ghosting, no dumb roster dating, no stupid love bombing. We liked each other, the communication was open, and we committed.
  • we were always on the same wave length. We could discuss about anything and everything from deep topics to stupid jokes.
  • I never had to worry about us. There was 100% trust. 100% honesty. 100% communication.
  • I could be feminine and loving because I knew there was no stupid game I had no put up with
  • other than my appearance, he valued me for my everything—work, hobbies, studies, thoughts, ideas
  • after 6 months, he had to leave for work, we respectfully communicated the end of our arrangement, and remained on good terms.

EASY.

I'm trying vanilla dating again, its been a month and gosh I can't stand these guys. - love bombing then ghosting out of no where - talking to 10 girls at once but acting like you're the only one (lying) - Lying. Lying. Lying. - cheap - cant plan a date - cancels last minute - cant hold an intellectual conversation - only knows how to compliment your appearance. Cant see your value past "you're so hot😍" - can watch your IG stories but cant respond
- pretending they want something serious when all they want is a quick bang (lying) - following 500 hot girls on IG, but say they wanna marry you😵‍💫 (lying) - seriously a waste of time and energy. I give up.

I know most sugar arrangements are short term and do not become a lifetime relationship, but you daddies have to be the best group of men out there.