What age should I have my first kiss by

I am a 13 year old girl and all of the girls and boys in my class have had their first relationship and kiss already mostly at discos yet I do not go to discos, I hate them , while they are all in relationships, me on the other hand, I have not even been hugged by someone outside of my family , I really want to get a relationship or even just a kiss that actually means something, is it weird to not have your first kiss yet because it sucks when literally everybody I know has a partner and I’m just lonely, what age will it become weird that I don’t have my first kiss and or relationship at? And what age do most people get it at?