rejection tips are not a “thing”

“Rejection Tips” are not a thing at my club. (I am referring to my Home Club.)

I hear people (namely YouTuber strippers) talking about how they like, go around collecting Rejection Tips, and I’m like. Really?🤨 Does that actually work for you?

Because I know that the culture at every club is different, and in the club I work at — which is kind of mid, honestly, it’s not even super upscale or fancy — it would be considered extremely tacky to do that, and people would probably clown you, honestly.

It is our job to upsell those private rooms, it is our job to do things like Seduce, Flirt, Entertain, & Tease, the guests. That is literally what is expected of you. You’re selling an experience. A “sexy” experience, at that. It’s not a GoFundMe.

So it would be very awkward and out of place to just ask for tips for being …”rejected,” if that makes sense?

I’m sorry, but that is just not a thing where I work.

(I work in a gentlemen’s club, fully nude, in Los Angeles, California …for context.)

I mean. If he’s not tipping for conversation, if they’re not interested in buying my services, and if they’re not fuckin’ with me on my stage set, then I know when to take a hint and keep it moving.

Ladies. Has this actually worked for you??? I find that hard to believe.

We don’t really do rejection tips where I work.

It’s kind of like… Either they want the lap dance, or not. It would be more humiliating to come across like you’re… begging, or desperate? If that makes sense? (No offense.)

I suppose it depends on your delivery when you say it, but... I do much better actually trying to seduce or interact with the customers, than to do the whole Rejection-Tip thing.

In my experience, when you ask for compensation, for simply approaching them (for your “time”) they usually just glare at you. It’s actually a turn-off to people. And it can even block you from him/them spending money on you, later in the night.

It’s not a tactic I personally recommend, honestly. At least not at the particular establishment where I work.

You would probably do much better trying to work the “Girlfriend Experience” angle. Or try to pitch the V.I.P. Rooms in a fun or alluring way. Or whatever. You’re a service provider, you’re a contractor, in a sense.

“Rejection Tips”? Not a real thing, in some cases.

Or have you found a way to do it, where it doesn’t sound too desperate/give off “cringey” vibes/turn people off…? 🤔

Thoughts? 🤷🏽‍♀️

EDIT: I forgot to put this in my Original Post, but I’m neurodivergent and I have anxiety. I’m speaking from prior experiences… Or maybe I am just overthinking everything?