Idk why this sub keeps getting recommend to me
As the title states, but I eventually went down the rabbit hole of reading some of these posts.
I have no clue how Reddit knew I'm short but sure why not.
I just wanted to drop this for some of you I see getting real down on your height.
I'm 5'6 not the tallest dude but I've managed to marry a honey outside my race, secure a solid job in construction management ( started in the field ), and had a child with my wife.
Life is what you make it and part of that is leveraging your strengths and understanding your weaknesses.
The reality is no one wants to hang around someone mopey waiting for them to feel sorry for them. It's extremely off putting.
The one thing people want more than power, money, or height (lol) is confidence. Confidence will get you everywhere and I mean truly appreciating yourself and what you offer to those around you. High levels of confidence mean when people interact with me, they aren't judging me entirely off my height, they see the man I am and what I offer.
Don't get it wrong though, do I ever feel self conscious about my height? Of course. It's only human. Sometimes I wish I had the extra half foot. Does it absolutely cripple me being 5'6? Lol no. At worst I have to get a chair to reach some shit.
All of you women/men whatever have so much to offer.You are more than your height, stop attaching your entire identity to such a vapid detail. Will it be easy? Fuck no, but was anything worth having really genuinely easy? No.