How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?

Like the title says: I’m a 33-year-old obese man, I have autism, and I have never so much as touched a woman. I live in Sweden, I have never had a job or even a single friend. I have absolutely no social skills, no “rizz”, and I pretty much hate myself and literally everything about my life.

I am, however, working on losing my weight and improving my life. Way, way too late, sure, and I’m probably never going to have the life I would’ve preferred — but at least I could conceivably have a tolerable one, perhaps…

For more details: I’m 180 cm tall and I weigh 153 kg, I have short hair and a short beard, and basically no noteworthy style at all. It’s just jeans and Henley shirts or T-shirts for me; I barely think at all about what I wear. I shower everyday — but because of my weight, I’m almost constantly sweaty. I also can barely talk to people at all. I have never been able to make friends, like I already said, and I haven’t worked a job for even a single day in my life because of my autism, ADD, and my complete lack of faith in myself, as well as difficulties to work independently, concentrating on tasks, socializing with others, and arriving on time.

So, what can I do? Is there any hope for me at all? Because I honestly feel like there isn’t much point to living life… If you’d like to know more details, just ask!