14 weeks and very prepared

I’m only 14 weeks, but this is my first baby and I’m trying to be as prepared early on so I have the rest of my pregnancy to relax and stress less. I feel like I’ve gotten so much judgment from friends and family who say I’m too organised too early. I just know myself well enough to know that if I don’t do it now, it’ll be left till last minute and I’ll stress about it.

I’m also a little upset with the constant need for people to donate things to me which I’m fine to accept but I don’t want everyone’s extra baby stuff they just wanna get rid of. My house is already small enough and when I say no to donations it’s like I’ve murdered someone. I’m not trying to be rude, I’m trying to avoid clutter. Does that make me a horrible person? I would rather someone less fortunate get those things then me who can afford to buy those things instead. I don’t know, maybe I’m hormonal.