How to get rid of tailbone pain?

I haven’t seen a doctor yet because I’m not sure if there’s anything they’d be able to do for me other than surgery (which isn’t an option for me right now).

I’ve had pretty bad tailbone pain off and on for months. Pretty much any position I sit in hurts and I’m tired of it affecting my quality of life. I’m only 25, I really dont want chronic pain at such a young age. I believe I have the pilondial sinus but not the cyst because there’s 2 small holes, but no lump. I’m new to this subreddit but it seems like a lot of posts say surgery is the only option to be cured. Has anyone been able to cure their tailbone pain without surgery? I’m willing to try anything