Sex Frequency in a Monogamous Relationship

Hi gays, girls, and theys!

Just wondering for long-time queer couples na monogamous, how frequent do you do it?

Kami kasi more than a year pa lang but once a week and it kinda feels like a chore kasi parang scheduled siya.

I’m not saying it’s bad but I kinda miss the spontaneity and frequency. Yung tipong anytime, anyday it can happen not just because it’s that one day of the week na you have to do it.

For context, mas hypersexual ako than my partner. My partner has low libido than I do.

So yun lang, how frequent do you do it? And normal ba na less frequent sex na lang as the years go by?