Anti vax mom died while in labor

I’m trying to not judge and I am trying to be a responsible RN and act as a source of information but after this week I am completely done. Mom at term and unvaccinated phoned L&D saying she was SOB and in early labor. She was planning a home birth but finally agreed to come in. For hours on end she adamantly refused aggressive interventions and intubation while she became more and more hypoxic. Her husband was not with her as he was COVID positive too. She finally coded and we delivered a healthy baby by c section. But we couldn’t get her back. She died and left her baby. I am so done with this horrible virus. I just don’t understand when people will wake up and take personal responsibility.