my mom kissed my baby

i didn’t want anyone kissing my baby for obvious reasons. i made it VERY clear and have make everyone wash their hands. i should’ve made everyone continue to mask as well.

my mom gets cold sores and although she doesn’t have an active one at the moment- i have heard that they’re still transmittable. she kissed my baby not once but twice. i couldn’t even think in the moment to say anything. the first time she did it i looked at he in shock and she said “sorry” but i think she was talking to the baby and not me. she then kissed him again.

i had to take some time before saying anything after they left. i was so upset. it’s fucking sick season too and she sounded a bit congested? literally have been so cautious since he has no vaccines yet. just so livid. this is exactly why i’ve barely had any visitors. just needed to rant.