wtf should i do with my hair :(

i do not think i have ever really liked any haircuts i have ever had so if anyone has recommendations on what I should do with my hair please let me know! I am not willing to cut my bangs bc i have a huge ass forehead and I am not really a fan of super short hair. my hair has been becoming increasingly wavy/curly lately especially in the back and i’m not really sure what to do with that, i kinda just straighten it out by brushing it while I am drying it. i always blow dry my hair (i have sensory issues with wet hair) and I use a heat protectant spray but i can tell my hair is still pretty dry. it’s always been very thick, but i have been sadly losing a bit lately due to some medication that i take.

i have no clue what to ask for or how to find people that have hair and a face similar to mine. i would want it to look more masculine than rn but i am not really into like the buzz cut style i prefer a softer look if that makes sense. ive been trying out the semi mullet thing for the past few months but i dont like it that much tbh.

would love to hear any suggestions or see any pictures of styles that you think might look good! should i be using any products?