How do people stay the course? I’m barely trying and I’m so tired

I had a date with a guy and he literally unmatched me an hour after we made the plans.

I didn’t take screenshots of the conversation but it essentially was just me asking if he liked art and us collectively deciding to go to the art installation that’s in town for the next few weeks. we had agreed for sunday @ 11:30.

he asked me if he should get one ticket or two, and I said if he wanted to grab tickets I could grab lunch?

i’m not entirely sure if he responded but the time I went to look (like an hour later he had unmatched me).

now I KNOW I didn’t do anything wrong and I know it’s probably not about me. (although i’ll take some insight if you have it). I’m not someone who’s even trying that hard, so i’m not like hurt, as much as I am like frustrated with the entire online dating experience?

i’m a 30/yo conventionally attractive (I think) woman, dating shouldn’t be this complicated??