Long distance relationships!

I have been in a long distance relationship for past 5 years and it’s like we are poles apart. The guy is totally into saving funds and say no to exploring kinda zone. He ll literally tell me every-time to mind my expenditure and be nosy whenever i spend my own money. We get into major arguments and fights every time. Earlier it appeared to me that i ll be able to manage and compromise which i am not able to now. The time has come where i have to take decision of getting married and it’s becoming a nightmare for me.

We have hardly gone to any places being in a relationship. Our choices, opinions don’t match at all.

I am dicey for marriage stuff too. Give your valuable opinions.