Forever mad about this exit

Alex’s exit was so poorly done, I haven’t rewatched greys until now and I forget how shitty the way they wrote him off was. I think my biggest irk is that he literally RENEWS his vows with Jo and then immediately dips and it makes NO sense, I wish they’d given him a death exit tbh which is shitty but I think it would’ve made more sense giving Jo his death to grieve instead and would’ve bonded her and mer further in different ways. It seems like Justin’s exit was abrupt though so maybe the writers had to work with what they could but I will forever bc bothered by the inconsistency of his leave from the show 😪