This actually hurts my soul

I got pregnant with my first kid at 16 & my mom (bless her soul) gave me the best advice during that time . She told me “your son needs you for protection. He can’t speak for himself or do things himself, you have to advocate for him” (it was long but, somewhere along those lines) & I’m now 28 with 4 kids including a 7 week old and those words followed me with every kid. I just can’t fathom how Fran and Jesse can say their babies are crying for the amount of time they say and not want to do something about it . Because if they really are crying that much, something has to be wrong (not colic) and as parent we should want to do any and everything to make our babies life easier. Yall can get massages and private chefs but, the babies can’t get to the doctor or stool dropped off . Strangers shouldn’t noticed things through an app about y’all’s baby when yall are right there ! That’s sickening . My second child would cry day & night , no idea why .. turns out she had an allergy to cows milk . Got her on the right stuff, & no more cries. Yall have to be better parents . Everything is a learning curve (I’m still learning myself) but, where’s the effort ?!

-RANT OVER. Sorry, it just burns me up to see complete negligence.