NE is the abundance mindset ?

Sometimes, I got stressed out I act like an unhealthy intj where I can see only one outcome.

In dating I act like this a lot and I had an epiphany, if this girl doesn’t want me, an another will want me, if theses others doesn’t want me, the girl z will want me. If the girl z don’t want me girl aa will.

It is amazing to think like that. I cannot be stressed by love anymore!