USER FLAIR: if you need a user flair, comment your style on this post and it will get added

User flairs are required and are really important as it lets our members know from what point of view you're answering.

User Flair options on this sub are:

• Dismissive Avoidant
• Secure
• Anxious Preoccupied
• Fearful Avoidant
• I Don't Know

Some AT material lump DA and FA together - but just to be clear, only DAs (dismissive avoidants) should classify themselves as such. DA/FA or 'Avoidant' should have the 'I Don't Know' or FA tag.

Please also use the 'I Don't Know' option if you are unsure, or you're just here to learn!

Please don't lie about your attachment style in the hopes that you'll be automatically approved to post - it doesn't work, and it isn't helpful!

Thanks - the DA Mods

Edited to add: Mods can see your comments here even if you get an automod message saying your comment was removed. Once we add the flair your comment on here will be approved. That is how you can tell it’s been done :)

Edit #2: please pick from the list above - we aren’t doing “leaning ____” here, so no need to specify. Please pick one from the list only. If you don’t do that and comment something else, you won’t get a flair assigned.

Edit #3 PLEASE BE PATIENT, we will add your flair as soon as we can. There is no need to panic and send us modmail within minutes of commenting your style on this thread.