Social Life

I [29 M] have always had women as close friends. I never really fitted in with men in general. I relate to women more etc..

I think I am an “extreme” (for the lack of a better word) demi. I am repulsed by sex and I have only been attracted to and in a relationship with only one person (1 year).

People usually assume I am gay the first time they see me. Some even don’t believe in being demi and assume I am just closeted (I know :)). My first question is do some of you also get this?

Also me being repulsed by sex and the majority of men unfortunately sexualise women etc. made me not a fit with men more. To add to that because I relate more to women I become very close to them.

However, the moment they get into a relationship is when the problems start. Almost all will change or end our close friendship and just be “normal” friends.

So basically it ends up with me losing my social life and having no friends. It sucks and I hate it. Only one close girl friend chose to not compromise in our friendship.

(When I was in a relationship I never did change /neither did my ex and I don’t plan to. (We broke up due to family reasons from her side). So does anyone suffer from this too?

Any advice will also be helpful, thanks.