Kind of Avoiding the DEPENDS Talk...

I've talked before about how my mom (85/Stage 6+) is starting to show some problems with incontinence.

I'm finding more and more stains on her pants.

But I/She are reluctant to discuss the topic.

(I tried Quetiapine for a few days days but dropped it because it left her out of it and more incontinent; I mostly addressed the issue by cutting short our trip to Florida, which was agitating her. Nice, warm, go to the beach every night, Florida. BUT ANYWAY...)

I've kind of gotten around that by -- as some suggested -- just leaving DEPENDS, etc. around so she can find them.

In the closet in the bathroom where she knows to look for more urinary pads.

She used a DEPENDS underwear some time in the past few days.

I guess the next step is "losing" her underwear, I guess in the wash...