Is she still interested?
A few years ago, a girl from my HS messaged me on IG. We would try to meet every so often, but were in different countries and couldn’t make it work. Last year, she messaged me again, and for once we were in the same city. We went for a coffee date which went well and let to another date.
I put effort into the second date, started with an Italian food market, went to the park after to watch the sunset, then gave her the choice between an arcade and boardgames, both of which I had reservations for. After an hour or so at the board games, we called it a night and I dropped her off. She gave me a kiss and I made my way home.
We tried to plan the third date, but something not another would come up with work, almost 2 weeks later she suggested a place and as I was about to leave, she said she’s still at work and I suggested we could do it another day and not to worry.
I threw the ball in her court and said let me know when you’re free and we can reschedule. I didn’t hear anything for a couple months. So I replied to her story 4 months later, and she said dating wasn’t a priority for her, but she really enjoyed spending time with me. She said she would be down to go out again, but was travelling for a couple weeks and would be down after. I told her to let me know when she’s back and we can do something, and once again I haven’t heard anything from her.
It’s been 2 months since, and I’m wondering if it’s worth it to message her again? Her messages seem genuine, but her actions seem otherwise. I’m not sure what to do. I thought we had a great connection, we hit it off pretty well and I’d like to see something work with her.