People that text a lot before meeting … why?

I’ve noticed a lot of men who text almost seem anxious without a back and forth conversation before meeting … and it often feels like they have put me on a pedestal before meeting me.

It’s also like they’re trying to maintain and create the illusion of a connection before it’s been built.

I am good with keeping things surface level and very minimal before actually connecting, whether that be in person or over the phone. And if we have a long phone call before meeting, I don’t mind letting things simmer until I connect again.

I am only interested in texting if we have actually established a connection.

What’s up with this constant need for texting??