Some of yall need to make some male friends cause the grass isn’t greener on the other side

Black women, come to the front. I'm gonna specifically call us out because I feel I see this attitude in our community the most. The idea that women are somehow more difficult to be friends because we're cattier/bring more drama while guys are all chill and easygoing needs to go. Let me tell y'all, every last guy I've ever been friends with (except for one who's trans) has brought stress, drama, and bullshit to my door. I don't think I've had a single straight male friendship that's lasted more than a couple of months bc they always catch feels over time and the gay guys I'm friends with, whom I love dearly, drive me up a fucking walk sometimes. Ain't shit chill with these men, ever.