Why does everyone want to feed my baby

Hi everyone,

4 month old, EBF baby. Does anyone feel pressure by others that their baby needs to be able to take a bottle? In-laws, partner, friends. My baby just doesn’t like the bottle. And that’s okay by me. I also have friends who just don’t seem to get it (and they don’t have kids, so I do understand), like being expected to travel to a bachelorette outside the country when I have a 6 month old. I’d have to somehow pump days worth of milk, then pump every 3-4 hours while away. I feel this pressure to be away from my baby, even if it is well intended. I don’t see myself wanting to be away from him (apart from a few hours here and there) for a while. Is that not okay?