I yelled at a man at the bar

So I’m (21F) a lesbian woman who’s been with my girlfriend for 4 years once March hits. I am a woman who is exclusively attracted romantically and sexually to other women. No ifs, no additions, no buts about it. Not to mention I have a toned and curvy body from my weight loss journey, and I’m proud of the progress I made so far.

That all to say, I was with my friends because we all went out for drinks and had a little brunch, and then this guy walked up to me and asked for my number, and I can see his friends looking at him in anticipation. I said, “Sorry I’m a lesbian but my friend here is single.”

He said, “She’s too ugly and I didn’t come here for her, I came for you.”

And I got mad so I started cussing him out and insulting his height since he wants have the nerve to call one of my best friends ugly. He didn’t even make eye contact with me as he went back to his table and his guy friends were clearly clowning him. And I’m not ashamed for doing that either. I’m still mad from that because this wasn’t the first time a man tried to flirt with me despite me being a lesbian.