Why does everyone hate Nolan?

I’ve been watching this show for years, and it’s become one of my favorites. I’ve fallen in love with all of the characters, especially Nolan.

I’ve seen so many videos and posts of people saying they despise him. I’ve seen videos of people completely skipping the scenes he’s in?? He’s the main character? I just don’t get it.

I know over time it turned into more of an ensemble show, with Nolan being less of the main focus, but it’s still his show. He’s a very loveable character and he’s genuinely a good guy. Is it because he’s ’old?’

I don’t get it!

Edit: For everyone saying, ‘no one has ever said that’ I wouldn’t have made this post if that were true. Maybe it’s not on this subreddit, but i’ve seen tons of TikToks talking about this exact topic.