Who is your Connell/Marianne?

I watched this series about 2 months ago and I've rewatched it almost every other week since then. I could sing it's praises all day, but the thing that keeps me (and assumedly, others) coming back is how Connell and Marianne's relationship relates and at times, parallels, to my own relationship. I'm curious to know if anyone else experienced the show (or book, though I haven't read it) in a similar way, and how so?