You don’t share, I stop asking.
My narc moves in silence. In 2023 he cut me out of his life decisions slowly (we’ll never know why) and started doing things on his own. He would share little details so I would start asking. Two days ago he shared that he was running errands because he’s getting his passport. Yesterday he told me he had a job interview. Both times I acknowledged what he said but showed no interest and switched the topic onto something else without asking anything. His ego deflated instantly both times. He acted cold and hurt. You don’t wanna share? I don’t wanna know. Bye! Take the passport & leave :)