How do you navigate people telling you “you don’t need to be hairless, cis women have body hair too”

Like… I’m doing this for myself. I’m not doing this for the patriarchy. There’s not a single man involved in this decision. I’m a lesbian ffs idgaf what a man thinks. I feel disgusted by my body hair and I want to get rid of it.

It feels invalidating and SO MANY people do it. Even about my fucking VOICE?! Like 🙄🙄🙄