Anyone else has a massive kin on captain curly?

I felt this character in a personal way. The whole thing about him trying to make everyone content and trying to conceal the situation between jimmy and anya, even though jimmy was wrong, hit home for me. Every single time there was conflict between my friends I was always the one in the middle trying to conceal everyone and staying out of the drama, no picking sides is a life policy for me. My current boyfriend (then friend) was once accused of terrible things and didn't know about it, I heard his full story and stood for him secretly, even though a chunkful of my friends were against him and went mad at me for it. Even though a bunch of ppl from my class turned against me when I was disrespected by a classmate blatantly just bc they found out I was by that person's side. Aaaand, despite me always staying as neutral as possible and trying to see everyone's sides, the time I needed someone to see my side of the story, very few did. So yeah, curly is very personal for me 🥹