I don't get the Tolga hate?

I am on episode 4 right now so no spoilers please!

But I do not get the Tolga hate. You cannot help it if you are not attracted to someone...
If I were stuck on a holiday with someone I am just not attracted to at all, I would also feel like I am "in jail" or feel like I am in a chokehold.

Is there something I am missing?

Of course, this show is about falling in love without seeing people but at the end of the day it is an experiment and people cannot control who they are attracted to.
Some of these comments I see on this sub can be so nasty and negative, when people aren't attracted to someone's physicality. Love requires more than just being attracted to the mind.