Does anyone every question what their controversial opinions say about them?

Have you ever related to someone on the show or thought that someone wasn't that bad, but EVERONE else hates them. So you are there wondering if that says something about you?

E.g., I didnt mind ushe and (at first not later) zanab. But then I realized that I didn't see their bluntness/directness as a red flag to many other issues (You don't need to explain why they are bad I know).

So... Anyone else?.... Just me?... Ok