My situationship is black and always talks about how they want me to “own them”

I’m white and they’re black and they only really fuck white guys, when we fuck they constantly talk about how i “own them” & “own [their] holes”. Do you think this is some kinda race-play cause i honestly dk if I’m comfortable with that. It’s so weird and idk how to comfortably broach the topic encase it’s not a race-play thing.