After 12+ years and 3 kids, wife is gay now.

We used to be best friends, I adopted her kid from her previous marriage, got hitched, had 2 more, got a house together.

I’m so frustrated, not only has she discovered she is gay, but she is just 100% done with me. I loved her with every ounce of my being, was willing to just accept id have to find sex elsewhere and allow her to have her sexual outlet however she needed it.

No, can’t eve have that, totally cut off from any happiness or enjoyment around each other, keeping secrets and talking shit about me. It’s like she has been as much of an asshole as possible without stirring any legal conflict to make me hate her back, and after 2 years of this shit, yeah I do hate her now.

She seems happier now. I’m so pissed and don’t know what to do. We’re still living together, except she’s works full time, and is off screwing other women on the weekends so I’m stuck raising our family by myself.

I feel so hopeless and angry, I guess I have to give up half my crap now….

If anyone else has been thru this, I could use any advice I could get.