Do y’all plan on having kids if so how?

So obviously having kids is t so easy for same-sex couples so how do you plan on having kids?

Off the top of my head there are 3 options for us to have kids, adoption or surrogacy

I’d personally opt for adoption for a couple reasons, firstly I’d feel weird about surrogacy because the babies real dad would be me or my partner so the other one would feel like a ‘fake dad’. Secondly, I’d find it weird if I knew the babies mum because she’d be sort of like a ‘third parent’ and I wouldn’t particularly like that. Yeah so that’s why I’d pick adoption, also adopting an orphan would be a morally good thing to do

With adoption I would definitely adopt a girl rather than boy because I feel like I’d be better at raising a girl as my most of my friends are female. And I’d 100% adopt her when she’s a newborn I wouldn’t like a daughter that already knows her real parents because she might think of me as a fake or replacement