I am so confused. Is this game still good and should I buy it? I'm seeing a lot of mixed opinions

I see people on the reddit saying its the best thing ever. I've seen people complain of memory issues but I don't personally have that issue myself. I see people on steam saying the multiplayer is so horrible and innercircley, and you get kicked out if you arent a certain level. I've watched videos and it looks like a complete blast in multiplayer, atleast. I've heard the campaigns are good, and so is the singleplayer. However I've seen many complaints about the AI being horrible, and I've seen people say that the soldiers don't throw grenades or dodge them automatically. The complaints sound reasonable and I think it'd offset me from the game too for me, but the other things sound great.

So I'm so conflicted, Do I buy it or not? I've played so many rts games previously and I'd like some insight on if this is actually good or not. Graphics arent an issue for me as i've seen them previously and they look fine.

Edit: I have purchased the game. Thank you for all the response to my questions. It has been a total blast so far.