Is it weird? Or it’s normal ?
Hi I’m 18yo(FM) but I always have the same talk with my friends or my family and they always end up scolding me and say you are weird and idk some shitty talk .
When I talk to someone on not planning on marrying and have children or family and I never had a “baby fever “like every Tim I look at a video about babies I just don’t even smile a little bit I just don’t like them and I never dreamt about being a mother and raising a children I just really can’t stand them.
So every time I talk about with someone who I thought they will support me and my thoughts and ideas well turned out that they scold me saying “when it’s you child it will be different “or something like “when you grew older who will help in this life “it’s not like I brought a children to the universe to make them my maid or anything or be like”you will regret when you see everyone’s children and you don’t “ I mean what else do I want ? I literally love being alone and in no duties like feeding and cleaning a child .