ENFPs/Campaigners, just a reminder for when you’re like me: sleepless at 3am, feeling lonely, and currently reviewing your last failed relationship

“Campaigners go all-in with their relationships, and if they fall apart despite their efforts, they can end up plagued with questions about why the relationship failed and what they could have done differently – without a buoy, these thoughts can crush Campaigners’ self-esteem as they sink into depression. It’s important for Campaigner personalities, as with anyone, to remember that relationships are in all ways mutual – mutual interest, mutual growth, and mutual responsibility – and they can’t be solely accountable.” (Taken from the 16personalities website)

It reminded me how I have always been too hard on myself when reviewing things. The results are sleepless nights and feeling helpless/hopeless like tonight. Not great.

Hopefully things will get better soon for us, beautiful ENFPs. For now, let’s try to be more compassionate on ourselves and get some sleep.

Good night!