“Why would I come to bed with you?”

My (30 HLF) husband (38 LLM) never comes to bed with me at night. He doesn’t work, so he stays up late playing video games. I’ve expressed over and over how lonely it feels to go to bed alone every night, and he just doesn’t care.

Today I expressed again how I’d like for us to go to bed together, to fall asleep next to each other. You know, like married couples are supposed to, or so I hear.

His response? “Why would I come to bed with you?”

Ouch. Just ouch. It stung, it gave me this weird feeling in my chest.