Do you guys also both hate and love certain people at the same time?

As in specific friends, family members. I love them and hate them at the same time. I cannot explain it, but for years I’ve gone loving someone and truly thinking of them as a friend to hating them and wishing I never met them a second later. This applies to specific family members and also friends that I’ve met throughout the years. Often times I’ll feel a mix of the two at the same time.

Is this common for people with BPD?