Do men actually want to fall into romantic earth shattering love?

I'm wondering if men actually like the idea of the kind of love from poetry or romantic stories. The kind that alters everything and consumes you. Making your chest physically ache. Do men even desire it? Or is it just something made to fantasise about. Do people care about it or is it something that's dying out?

Just interested especially with men from the UK as it just doesn't seem to be something men want and I want to understand it more.