Advice: give love and attention to your partner without them having to ask for it

Here is your sign to do something sweet for your partner. Check in on them or give them a kiss on their forehead. When your partner has to ask for it if they don't get enough love it's already a losing streak, because they will feel like they put pressure on you and it's not your idea. Just don't forget to be appreciative of your partner in your life.

Edit: had to comment multiple times that I used the word partner instead of wife or girlfriend because I meant it for both sides. There is a lot of women here being interested in men's psychology and just in general and I internally referred to them too. So yes, all people in relationship please be caring and appreciative of love. Never take a relationship for granted.