The city feels off?

In the last year or so, I have noticed that when going to dine out, or for a coffee or drink, things seem kind of dead...it feels like this amazing city is in steady decline. Restaurants are poorly staffed, overpriced, and I get it, things are expensive, which would be fine for a night out if the service, and food was good, but overall the vibes are off...and that may be why not a lot of people is out anymore. There is a mayor disconnect between what businesses are offering and what residents really want and need. Has anyone noticed this?...maybe its just my side of town?