Why Do Some Men Think Women Just Sit Around Waiting to Marry, When It’s a Ton of shit we go through after marriage?

I am 23F, and it drives me nuts when guys act like marriage is some jackpot for women—like we just sit there twiddling our thumbs till it happens and we can just marry and then we are set, even if we dont make it in our career.post-marriage, it’s a freaking avalanche of stuff—running the house, handling in-laws, juggling a million expectations. Why do some men think it’s all easy for us? Guys, girls, what’s your take on this?