Anyone else have APs that took no interest in your life until you became an adult and had your own life?

I didn't have tiger parents. I had the extreme opposite. Completely neglectful and no interest in doing any parenting at all. Providing the bare physical necessities was a huge burden for them. Now that I'm an adult with my own life they suddenly seem to be very interested in me and want to pretend that we have some sort of long standing parent-child relationship. They are practically strangers to me but suddenly want to step into the role of being a parent 30 years too late.