WIBTAH if I leave my bf over the conditions he made for our trip

I’m an international student ( F,26) . I’m not allowed to work more than certain hours a week. So I make sure I don’t waste my money on unnecessary things like trips or take out. I don’t expect anyone to take care of me either. I live with my boyfriend of 2 years( m,37). Mark has a full time job. Since he can afford certain things he often does stuff with his friends like eating out , going to a bar to watch the game , going to the concert , trips. No hard feelings! He has zero obligation to be my ATM. We talked about getting married and he randomly ask where is the one place you really wish you could visit . I told him it’s silly but I always wanted to visit New York . I know it’s dumb but I learned how to speak English before moving to Canada ( from Poland )by watching Sex and the city re-runs. He said cool! Then this morning he said guess who is going to NY with me in March if she be a good girl ? I was like .. who? He said you ! I screamed NO WAY! jumped and kissed him. He said all expenses paid but again he said only if you be a good girl . I was kind of turned off I asked “good girl as in?”. He said well I give you two suggestions but you can give me your ideas . 1- starting tonight until March, give me blow job every night ! I’m not saying a few minutes! I’m saying take care of me fully ( he meant swallowing and stuff ) 2- let me finally try anal with you ( he had asked many times) I said no. I was so turned off I said so I should work like a sex worker to be afford the trip? He got upset and said I twisted his words. He is testing me if I’m wife material and ready to be the woman who would do anything for her husband . I told him I’m not interested in the trip anymore. He got upset and said it was just a suggestion and he was open to ideas . Would I be an asshole if I just end it? Or am I making a huge deal out of a condition?